The exam gold here is the three wudū lists kept distinct — 6 farḍ, the sunan, the 5 nullifiers — plus the touching-the-wife madhhab split.
1 · Istinja الاستنجاء
- Meaning: removing impurity from the private parts after urination/defecation. Ruling: wājib (obligatory).
- What may be used: water (primary & best) · any solid, rough material (stones, tissue). Best = stone first, then water. If only one: water is better.
Conditions for using stones (if no water)
- The material is dry.
- Used before the impurity dries.
- Impurity has not spread beyond the exit area.
- Impurity has not moved to another spot.
- At least three stones (or wipes); add more if not clean; an odd number is recommended (3, 5, 7).
What must NOT be used
- Anything impure or contaminated (e.g. dung — the Prophet ﷺ called it rijs).
- Edible items (bread, food) or food of the jinn (bones, dung).
- Honoured/respected things — parts of a living animal (liver, leg), and human parts even more so. (Separated pure parts like a ḥalāl animal's hair or tanned skin are allowed.)
2 · Etiquettes of relieving oneself
- Place: avoid public paths & gathering/shaded resting places; avoid holes/burrows; avoid under fruit-bearing trees; avoid stagnant water.
- Entering/leaving: enter with the left foot first, leave with the right foot first. Say the duʿāʾ before (بسم الله، اللهم إني أعوذ بك من الخبث والخبائث) and after (غفرانك…).
- Direction: do not face or turn the back to the qiblah in the open (or a non-toilet space); allowed in a proper toilet, or behind a cover within ~3 cubits (≈150 cm).
- Behaviour: rely on the left hand to clean (right hand reserved); don't look at the sky, the private parts, or the excretion; makrūh to talk, eat, drink or play; don't relieve oneself together exposing the ʿawrah.
3 · Wudū — the three lists
The 6 farḍ (obligatory) acts [5:6]
- Niyyah (intention) — formed at the start of washing the face.
- Washing the entire face.
- Washing the hands including the elbows.
- Wiping part of the head (even one hair within the head).
- Washing the feet including the ankles.
- Tartīb — keeping the correct order.
Sunan (recommended) — the most important of 18
Bismillāh · washing the hands 3× before · siwāk · madmaḍah (rinse mouth) · istinshāq/istinthār (nose) · takhlīl of a thick beard · wiping the whole head · takhlīl between fingers & toes · wiping the ears with fresh water · doing each act 3× (tathlīth) · starting with the right · dalk (rubbing) · muwālāh (continuity) · ghurra & taḥjīl (extending the washed area) · moderation in water · facing the qiblah · silence · the shahādah & duʿāʾ after.
The 5 nullifiers
- Anything exiting the front or back passage (urine, stool, blood, wind).
- Sleep while not firmly seated (firm seating = buttocks resting fully; firm-seated sleep does NOT break it).
- Loss of consciousness — intoxication, fainting, illness, insanity.
- A man touching his wife or any non-maḥram woman skin-to-skin (Shāfiʿī — see below).
- Touching the private parts (own or another's, front or back) with the inside of the hand, no barrier.
Makrūh in wudū: wasting or being too stingy with water · washing the left before the right · drying the limbs without need · splashing the face · doing more/less than 3× deliberately · being helped without excuse · over-rinsing the nose/mouth while fasting.
4 · Does touching the wife break wudū?
A classic madhhab disagreement built on «أو لامستم النساء» (al-Māʾidah 5:6) — does "touched women" mean skin contact or intercourse?
- Shāfiʿī: touching the bare skin of the wife (or any non-maḥram woman) invalidates wudū, even without desire. Conditions (Bujayrimī): male+female, skin-to-skin (not through hair/nails/teeth), no barrier, both of an age of desire, not maḥram.
- Ḥanafī: touching never invalidates — wife or not, with or without desire (the Prophet ﷺ touched ʿĀʾishah without renewing wudū).
- Mālikī & Ḥanbalī (middle view): touching with desire invalidates; without desire it does not.
Dār al-Iftāʾ adopts the Shāfiʿī view as the more precautionary, matching the apparent meaning of the verse.
Keep the three wudū lists in separate columns in your head — the paper loves "classify this act".
Istinja — do's & don'ts
| Use ✅ | Never use ❌ |
|---|---|
| Water (best); stone then water | Anything impure (dung = rijs) |
| Dry stones/tissue, ≥ 3, odd number | Edible food / bones & dung (jinn-food) |
| Tanned skin, ḥalāl-animal hair (pure) | Honoured things; animal/human parts |
Toilet: left foot in, right foot out · don't face/turn back to qiblah (except a proper toilet) · clean with the left hand.
Wudū — three lists side by side
| 6 Farḍ | Key Sunan | 5 Nullifiers |
|---|---|---|
| 1. Niyyah | Bismillāh; siwāk | 1. Exit from front/back passage |
| 2. Wash face | Wash hands 3× before | 2. Sleep not firmly seated |
| 3. Hands + elbows | Madmaḍah & istinshāq | 3. Loss of consciousness |
| 4. Wipe part of head | Wipe whole head; ears | 4. Touch non-maḥram skin (Shāfiʿī) |
| 5. Feet + ankles | Tathlīth (3×); start right | 5. Touch private parts (palm, no barrier) |
| 6. Tartīb (order) | Muwālāh; shahādah after |
Touching the wife — madhhab grid
| School | Ruling |
|---|---|
| Shāfiʿī | Breaks wudū — even without desire (adopted by Dār al-Iftāʾ) |
| Ḥanafī | Never breaks wudū — with or without desire |
| Mālikī & Ḥanbalī | Breaks wudū only with desire |